Stand-up Paddling and Surfing with Maria Souza

Feb 14
2011

For This Woman, The Ocean IS her Heaven On Earth

Written by: Dwayne Mac Murtrie  ( My ghost writer)

What makes a person a champion? Is it their accomplishments? Is it their desire? Is it their determination? Or is it how they measure up to…. themselves? For one such athlete it goes beyond this as she includes wanting to make a difference in everyone’s lives, especially her daughter’s. Musical Artist Bruce Springsteen sings the line, “Is a dream a lie if it don’t come true, or is it something worse?” from the song “The River.” That is why women’s water sport champion Maria Souza has shown time and time again, that she is that champion and has been relentless in making her dreams come true.

Souza has been involved in many different water sports over the years, but it is for her tow-in surfing that gave her the most recognition to start. She has been credited as the first woman ever to compete in tow-in surfing as she got started in back in 1989-90. Tow-in surfing is a method where a partner pulls you into a giant wave with the assistance of some form of motor vehicle, whether it is in the form of a water vehicle or helicopter. “I met my ex-husband (surfer Laird Hamilton) and they were testing and starting the tow-in with a zodiac,” recalls Maria. However, it is her stand-up paddle surfing competitions at Channel Crossing, along with teammate Andrea Moller, which has made Maria the most proud, as she remarked, “All wins and no losses.”

Stand-up paddle surfing is a sport where you are standing on a surfboard and using a paddle to brush strokes through the water instead of using waves only as the force behind your movements. Think of it as the water version of cross country skiing as it is about endurance and not the quick spurt. Although Souza is proud of her accomplishments in the water, she grew up hating competitions but fell in love with the adrenaline of big waves and feels that “surfing is an art form and should not be judged.”

Maria was born in March of 1969 and is from the city of Recife in Brazil. While living in Brazil, Maria’s first taste of water sports was swimming. “I did swimming to compliment my cardio when I did gymnastics,” stated Souza. However, it wasn’t long after that Maria took off her gymnastic slippers and headed to the ocean. Souza continued, “I wanted to grow in size and develop as a young lady, my (gymnastics) training was too intense and the ocean set me free.” Much of Maria’s love for the ocean is credited to her mother, Edilza. As a youngster, Edilza used to take Maria and her older sister, Tai, down to the ocean at sunrises before going to school to suck up water through their noses and blow the water back out, as her mother believed this prevented colds. It not only prevented colds, but it gave Maria the confidence that she could overcome anything in the ocean. “I was 12 years old when I tried it (surfing) for the first time. Someone let me use their board and I went straight into a surfing hit, I got pounded, lost the hit but got hooked because I was so used to the drowning feeling that my mom taught us with the salt water flushes.

Then things took a turn as Maria and her ex-husband of five years gave birth to her first child, Izabella, in July of 1995. Maria recalls, “My beautifulBela was three months old when I became single. I had no choice but to make the Bela choice. I kept doing all the ocean life I could but took a nine year break from the extreme sports venue. I had a mission to be there for her and to teach her right from wrong. In addition, the frame of mind and the emotional state you must be in to ride big waves would have been selfish for that moment in my life. It was the best choice I ever made in my life.”

Despite the success that Maria was having in the water sport competitions, major sponsorships just were not in the cards for her and instead of ending her dreams, Maria relished in it and preferred it. “I had lots of help from local stores as I never really wanted to sign a contract for money because being a single mom, I could not promise that I could be on a location to do a promotion, photo shoots or anything else that was needed of me. Therefore, I had to pretty much sponsor my hobbies, which in turn have become one of my jobs. Besides, I appreciate it more because I savored each equipment I bought and I took good care of them because I know how much and how long I had to save for them,” Souza noted.

It was also this kind of drive that led her into her own business ventures as Maria has taken her multi-talents in the water sports world and is adapting them in the business world. Souza runs Ocean Sports LLC, a company that studies and teaches body therapy, corrective exercises and injury prevention. Maria has taken all these techniques and has become a personal trainer in which she also includes the art of yoga. In addition to personal training, she also teaches stand-up paddle surfing through Ocean Sports to all that is interested. With all her focus going towards personal training and water sports lessons, Maria has set aside for the time being another business venture of hers, Amazon Swim Wear, which is her line of clothing for the water. “I had to set it (Amazon) on the side when I started the Ocean Sports School. I had to go back to Brazil to oversee manufacturing and shipping. It took so much time and energy,” Maria commented.

Today, Maria has been living on the island of Maui in Hawaii for nearly half her life and has been together with her current husband, Kawika, for about four years. “We met while paddling canoes. He is an ocean lover and an incredible fishing man. We also have done tandem surfing together. Maria and Kawika were married in Tahiti and are expecting their first child together in June 2010. As for the now 14-year old Bela, she is establishing an identity of her own. “Bela helps me on Saturdays and holidays when she is not with her dad. She is really good with kids and a natural in the ocean. Now she is involved in volleyball, soccer and just being a teenager. She is still my best friend and we have a close family life. We eat dinner every night together and I drive her everywhere so we can chat. She’s a wise old soul,” gushed the proud mother.

As for the path that Maria’s life has taken her, she knew early on it that it would always include the ocean. “Without thinking about it I went with the ocean flow, which also has included different continents. I am blessed that my being is used to transform lives and to inspire other women and people I encounter in life, all through the water ways as I’m more comfortable in the water element than on dry land,” Souza concedes. She also contends that she “can make a difference in so many lives and do it from the heart, with the most pure intention.” People, especially kids, are what motivates Maria to keep training and learning.

Souza isn’t done giving back, as she hopes someday to bring back her once a month free stand-up paddle surf lessons for kids which not only shows the fun aspects of the sport, but also features a good portion on water sports safety. The lessons have grown so much, Maria needs to find a new location appropriate enough to handle that many kids at one time before she can reintroduce the program back to the community of Maui. However, in the meantime, she continues to give private lessons and has found the most popular trend these days are the lessons for the grandparent/grandchild tandem as she has witnessed when both are in the ocean, age simply disappears. “I get a lot of kids that are interested in learning stand-up paddle surfing, but lately it has been more of tandem teachings to a grandparent and grandchild as they bond together,” Souza says.

One of Maria’s inner beauties is the dreamer within her. She dreams big and with a purpose. Maria’s biggest dream is to one day develop an ocean center where kids could learn to fish, keep the ocean clean and to stay healthy through ocean sports. It is also a place where water sports and fitness would be taught. “I love to work with kids. I wish their parents and caregivers could give them (kids) the opportunity to experience water sports and all the healing the ocean provides to one’s life,” exclaimed Souza.

With all that she has experienced and accomplished in her 40 years plus on Earth, Souza feels there is still so much more to experience. She feels that life is a learning process and that she has not yet reached her peak. Souza continues, “I keep getting more motivated the more I learn and since I learn so much from my own injuries, I feel obligated to pass that on, so that every day I have a chance to perpetuate my life’s lessons.” However, when all is said and done, it is still family that motivates her and makes her the most happiest. As much as each water sport she does has its own charm, it’s when she tandem surfs on the long board with Bela, acrobatics with her husband or simply has a soul surfing session alone that she is on top of the world. With all her family now living in Maui, they are always together and is a dream come true for Maria as she needs both the ocean and her family every day.

Wedding Traditions Of Africa’s Central Region

Nov 04
2010
Wedding Traditions Of Africa’s Central Region
Wedding traditions throughout the world can bring about all kinds of different traditions,
customs and religious beliefs. Some of the traditions are more modernized and some seem to be
of a different era. For the countries of Africa’s central region, that includes the Congo, Ethiopia,
Kenya and Somalia, these traditions are no different.
Congo
- For the marriage and wedding to be taken seriously, the couple is not allowed to smile during
or after the ceremony; this includes all pre, during and post ceremony photos.
- A church does not have the legal right to hold a wedding, therefore the couple are to wed in a
civil service first, then have a ceremony at the church.
Ethiopia
Arraigned marriages have always been a way of life in Ethiopia, however more of that is
changing, especially in the urban areas of the country. As for the arraigned weddings, after the
groom’s family ensures their son and potential bride are not related, the son’s family will then
ask the girl’s family for the marriage. If successful, the family of the groom will pay a dowry
pending on the family’s wealth. Generally the dowry will include anywhere from money to
livestock. In addition, the bride and groom will never see each other until the wedding itself.
After the ceremony the couple goes to his family’s home for the honeymoon which can last as
long as three months. He is expected to have devirginize his bride within the first three days of
marriage. It is not uncommon for the best man to accompanying the couple on the honeymoon.
During the honeymoon, the bride can go outside the home only after sunset.
After spending the honeymoon period at the groom’s family home, they then spend an
unspecified time staying at her family’s home.
Kenya
Marking the passing from that of a young bride in to that of a married woman, a ceremony
known as kupamba is performed. Kupamba generally takes place in the evening and this is the
first time she is shown in public after her real wedding takes place.
- The Karo tribe beautifies their brides with tattoos of different emblems and symbols onto her
abdomen.
- Amongst the people of Amhara, both marriages and divorces are negotiated between the two
families. Since the wife does not qualify for inheritance from her husband if he were to die, she
is paid wages of that of a housekeeper. Their children are however, will receive the inheritance.
Priests in the Amhara tribe are allowed to get married, but can’t divorce or remarry.
Many parts of Kenya today are adapting a more western style of wedding including the white
wedding gown.
In old traditional Kenya still lives the brides-to-be virgins, but this too has changed in more
modern times and have found that many of today’s brides are no longer virgins. However, in the
Lamu region, where the brides are from upper class families, they have to remain virgins or they
could spoil the family’s reputation.
Somalia
- A man is able to marry as many as four women as long as he can afford to support them.
- It is fairly common for an unborn female to become engaged to an older man.
- Within the Woyo tribe, when a bride marries and moves into her new husband’s home, her
mother gives her a gift; a set of carved pot lids. The lids are carved with images and symbols that
show the proverbs of marriage. The wife will serve food to guests and the lid she chooses would
represent how she is being treated by her husband for all to see without it being vocalized.
- At the wedding ceremony, the father of the bride in a Massai tribe will spit on his daughter’s
head and breasts, which serves as a blessing.
- A Massai bride then walks with her new husband to their new home. She is never to look back
in fear of turning to stone. The bride is often between 13-16 years old.
- To thwart off potential bad luck, sometimes the women in the groom’s family will purposely
insult his new bride.
- In the Swahili tribe, a somo, or elder woman, will teach the bride how to please her new
husband. To prevent problems, it is not uncommon for the somo to hide under the bed in the
event she is needed.
- A Samburu tribe wedding is considered complete after a bull is brought in to the hut, which is
to be watched by the mother of the bride. Then the bull is killed.

Wedding Traditions Of Africa’s Central Region
Wedding traditions throughout the world can bring about all kinds of different traditions,customs and religious beliefs. Some of the traditions are more modernized and some seem to beof a different era. For the countries of Africa’s central region, that includes the Congo, Ethiopia,Kenya and Somalia, these traditions are no different.
Congo
- For the marriage and wedding to be taken seriously, the couple is not allowed to smile duringor after the ceremony; this includes all pre, during and post ceremony photos.
- A church does not have the legal right to hold a wedding, therefore the couple are to wed in acivil service first, then have a ceremony at the church.
Ethiopia
Arraigned marriages have always been a way of life in Ethiopia, however more of that ischanging, especially in the urban areas of the country. As for the arraigned weddings, after thegroom’s family ensures their son and potential bride are not related, the son’s family will thenask the girl’s family for the marriage. If successful, the family of the groom will pay a dowrypending on the family’s wealth. Generally the dowry will include anywhere from money tolivestock. In addition, the bride and groom will never see each other until the wedding itself.
After the ceremony the couple goes to his family’s home for the honeymoon which can last aslong as three months. He is expected to have devirginize his bride within the first three days ofmarriage. It is not uncommon for the best man to accompanying the couple on the honeymoon.During the honeymoon, the bride can go outside the home only after sunset.
After spending the honeymoon period at the groom’s family home, they then spend anunspecified time staying at her family’s home.
Kenya
Marking the passing from that of a young bride in to that of a married woman, a ceremonyknown as kupamba is performed. Kupamba generally takes place in the evening and this is thefirst time she is shown in public after her real wedding takes place.
- The Karo tribe beautifies their brides with tattoos of different emblems and symbols onto herabdomen.
- Amongst the people of Amhara, both marriages and divorces are negotiated between the twofamilies. Since the wife does not qualify for inheritance from her husband if he were to die, sheis paid wages of that of a housekeeper. Their children are however, will receive the inheritance.
Priests in the Amhara tribe are allowed to get married, but can’t divorce or remarry.
Many parts of Kenya today are adapting a more western style of wedding including the whitewedding gown.
In old traditional Kenya still lives the brides-to-be virgins, but this too has changed in moremodern times and have found that many of today’s brides are no longer virgins. However, in theLamu region, where the brides are from upper class families, they have to remain virgins or theycould spoil the family’s reputation.
Somalia
- A man is able to marry as many as four women as long as he can afford to support them.
- It is fairly common for an unborn female to become engaged to an older man.
- Within the Woyo tribe, when a bride marries and moves into her new husband’s home, hermother gives her a gift; a set of carved pot lids. The lids are carved with images and symbols thatshow the proverbs of marriage. The wife will serve food to guests and the lid she chooses wouldrepresent how she is being treated by her husband for all to see without it being vocalized.
- At the wedding ceremony, the father of the bride in a Massai tribe will spit on his daughter’shead and breasts, which serves as a blessing.
- A Massai bride then walks with her new husband to their new home. She is never to look backin fear of turning to stone. The bride is often between 13-16 years old.
- To thwart off potential bad luck, sometimes the women in the groom’s family will purposelyinsult his new bride.
- In the Swahili tribe, a somo, or elder woman, will teach the bride how to please her newhusband. To prevent problems, it is not uncommon for the somo to hide under the bed in theevent she is needed.
- A Samburu tribe wedding is considered complete after a bull is brought in to the hut, which isto be watched by the mother of the bride. Then the bull is killed.

Maui Surfer Girls- Summer Camp

Sep 12
2010

Over the the past five years I have captured numerous surf lessons and surf camps in Maui and Costa Rica for the owner of Maui Surfer Girls, “Dustin Tester”.

Below are a couple shots of the girls who attended Maui Surfer Girls Camp this summer.

Maui Surfer Girls (MSG) was established in 2001 with a mission to build self-confidence in women through the sport of surfing. Utilizing a community of strong female role models, warm water waves, and the spirit of aloha, MSG offers a top-notch overnight surf camp in Hawaii specifically designed for teen girls. MSG also offers abroad surf trips for women of all ages and co-ed surf or stand-up lessons.

If your coming to Maui on vacation and want to try your hat at surfing, I highly recommend you contact Dustin at Maui Surfer Girls for professional surf lesson.

Contact Maui Surfer Girls Today!

Phone:

Local: 808 280-8165

Fax:

808 242-6402

Wedding Traditions of Western Europe’s Lower Southwest Region

Sep 02
2010

Wedding Traditions of Western Europe’s Lower Southwest Region

Wedding traditions vary throughout the world, but wedding traditions of Western Europe are filled with tradition of the old past and are renewed with modern tendencies. The lower southwest region of Western Europe, which includes France, Spain and Portugal, are no different.

France

A couple items of note in regards to a French wedding, is that the popularity of a white wedding dress being worn by the bride originated in France and was derived from the word “trousse,” which means bundle.

One custom that continues to be in use in the smaller villages of France is an age old tradition of the groom calling his future bride at home the morning of the wedding. He will then escort her to the wedding, while kids will stretch out across the road white ribbons, in which the bride would cut down.

An early French custom that symbolizes the bringing together of the two families is at the wedding reception when the couple lift two glasses of wine; one from one vineyard and the other from a different vineyard. The two will then pour the two glasses of wine into a third glass, in which the two will drink from.

Quite often, these drinks of wine are done using double handed goblets that have been specially engraved and are usually a family heirloom that has been passed on from different generations.

Sometimes, late into the night after the new couple have gone home, friends may show up banging pots and pans, while singing aloud. It is expected that the groom will invite them in for food and drinks.

Portugal

Although Portugal has taken a more modern approach to their weddings, traditions are just as important to their culture as any other aspect. Past wedding traditions include:

- The groom would have a relative or friend ask the woman’s dad for permission for him to propose to the daughter. If the answer is yes, then the groom would officially seek the father’s permission.

- Pretending to be a cow, the bride would need to be recognized by the owner, the groom.

- The day after the wedding, the couple would go and visit each wedding guest and personally thank them for being part of the ceremony.

- There is also the custom of passing the bride’s shoe around during the reception. This allows guests to stuff the shoe with money, that will be used to help pay for the honeymoon and a new start together.

- A traditional bride may wear a white Chinese tunic that is covered in jewels. While the groom wears a dark suit and topped off with a top hat.

- At the end of the wedding ceremony, the couple joins hands and the priest places a stole over their joined hands.

- Much like the rice toss after the wedding, family and friends would toss flowers and candles.

- After the ceremony, the couple, along with any family member, friend or even strangers will walk together through the streets. This is a way of wishing happiness for their new life.

- Once the new couple has a moment alone, they may drink tea and partake of small cakes.

In a more modern Portugal, you will see these traditions:

- Religious ceremonies are now patterned after Western Europe and the United States. Therefore, you will still see some of the above older traditions, sans the cow impersonation, combined with newer and more modern methods.

- Like many other wedding ceremonies, a Portuguese reception is no different as it is filled with a lot of laughter, dancing and the sharing of stories. In addition, there is always plenty of wine to drink as this party continues for some time.

Spain

Items of note for the country of Spain are:

- For a woman getting married in Spain, often Orange Blossoms are a great choice. The orange tree blossoms and bears fruit at the same time; therefore its flowers symbolize fulfillment and happiness.

- Symbolizing his promise to care and support her, quite often the groom will give the bride prior to the wedding thirteen coins, which represent the memory of Christ and the twelve apostles.

- A Spanish bride may wear a b

Wedding Traditions of Western Europe’s Lower Southwest Region

Wedding traditions vary throughout the world, but wedding traditions of Western Europe are filled with tradition of the old past and are renewed with modern tendencies. The lower southwest region of Western Europe, which includes France, Spain and Portugal, are no different.

France

A couple items of note in regards to a French wedding, is that the popularity of a white wedding dress being worn by the bride originated in France and was derived from the word “trousse,” which means bundle.

One custom that continues to be in use in the smaller villages of France is an age old tradition of the groom calling his future bride at home the morning of the wedding. He will then escort her to the wedding, while kids will stretch out across the road white ribbons, in which the bride would cut down.

An early French custom that symbolizes the bringing together of the two families is at the wedding reception when the couple lift two glasses of wine; one from one vineyard and the other from a different vineyard. The two will then pour the two glasses of wine into a third glass, in which the two will drink from.

Quite often, these drinks of wine are done using double handed goblets that have been specially engraved and are usually a family heirloom that has been passed on from different generations.

Sometimes, late into the night after the new couple have gone home, friends may show up banging pots and pans, while singing aloud. It is expected that the groom will invite them in for food and drinks.

Portugal

Although Portugal has taken a more modern approach to their weddings, traditions are just as important to their culture as any other aspect. Past wedding traditions include:

- The groom would have a relative or friend ask the woman’s dad for permission for him to propose to the daughter. If the answer is yes, then the groom would officially seek the father’s permission.

- Pretending to be a cow, the bride would need to be recognized by the owner, the groom.

- The day after the wedding, the couple would go and visit each wedding guest and personally thank them for being part of the ceremony.

- There is also the custom of passing the bride’s shoe around during the reception. This allows guests to stuff the shoe with money, that will be used to help pay for the honeymoon and a new start together.

- A traditional bride may wear a white Chinese tunic that is covered in jewels. While the groom wears a dark suit and topped off with a top hat.

- At the end of the wedding ceremony, the couple joins hands and the priest places a stole over their joined hands.

- Much like the rice toss after the wedding, family and friends would toss flowers and candles.

- After the ceremony, the couple, along with any family member, friend or even strangers will walk together through the streets. This is a way of wishing happiness for their new life.

- Once the new couple has a moment alone, they may drink tea and partake of small cakes.

In a more modern Portugal, you will see these traditions:

- Religious ceremonies are now patterned after Western Europe and the United States. Therefore, you will still see some of the above older traditions, sans the cow impersonation, combined with newer and more modern methods.

- Like many other wedding ceremonies, a Portuguese reception is no different as it is filled with a lot of laughter, dancing and the sharing of stories. In addition, there is always plenty of wine to drink as this party continues for some time.

Spain

Items of note for the country of Spain are:

- For a woman getting married in Spain, often Orange Blossoms are a great choice. The orange tree blossoms and bears fruit at the same time; therefore its flowers symbolize fulfillment and happiness.

- Symbolizing his promise to care and support her, quite often the groom will give the bride prior to the wedding thirteen coins, which represent the memory of Christ and the twelve apostles.

- A Spanish bride may wear a black silk dress for her wedding with a specially designed black lace veil. The groom may wear a shirt that has been embroidered by the bride to be.

- A traditional dance, the “Seguidillas Manchegas” is often danced by guests. A Seguidillas is a form of Spanish songs along with dance.

lack silk dress for her wedding with a specially designed black lace veil. The groom may wear a shirt that has been embroidered by the bride to be.

- A traditional dance, the “Seguidillas Manchegas” is often danced by guests. A Seguidillas is a form of Spanish songs along with dance.