Wedding Traditions of Africa’s Northeast Region

Oct 29
2010
Wedding Traditions of Africa’s Northeast Region
Wedding traditions in Africa bear some of the oldest rituals in the world; after all it is the oldest
continent on the planet. Many of these traditions can be attributed to religion, culture or tribal. In
the northeast region of Africa, you’ll find such countries as Chad, Egypt, Libya and Sudan, and
within those countries you will find a spirit of their rituals.
Chad
There are different groups in the country of Chad; the two most known are the Arab Chad and
the Taubou or Daza Chad.
- The Arab Chad lives in a family that is closely knitted together.
- The primary social unit of the Arab Chad is known as Kashimbet.
- The Taubou Chad, are known for being nomadic.
- The wife is the decision maker in the family.
- The Taubou Chad believes in polygamy.
Egypt
- Often girls in Egypt marry at a young age.
- It is believed that the ring finger has the vein of love as it runs straight to the heart and that is
why the ring goes on that finger.
- The groom’s family often proposes to the bride as many Egyptian weddings are still arraigned.
After the agreement is made the Koran’s first chapter is read aloud.
- The Zaffa, which is an Egyptian wedding march, is played prior to the wedding vows. It
includes music, drums, horns, belly dancers and flaming sword performers.
- An Egyptian wedding must include at least two Muslim witnesses.
Libya
- With Islam being the state religion of Libya, the wedding ceremony is usually Islamic and is
quite often officiated by an imam.
- The marriage contract is signed in the bride’s home, but the festivities that follow usually takes
place on a different day.
- Wedding tradition of the past has a Libyan bride’s body completely covered with her face
veiled. However, the guidelines have changed some in recent years allowing a bride to wear a
wedding gown from the Western culture.
- An Islamic wedding generally has the new bride and groom eating their dinner secluded from
the wedding guests.
- On her way to her new home, often candy and rice are used to shower the bride as she walks.
Sudan
- Prior to the wedding, in exchange for the daughter’s hand in marriage, the groom’s family will
give the bride’s family sheep or cattle. This will help in replacing the labor lost by losing the
daughter’s help in the field. In some cases, it may cost the man as much as 40 cattle.
- For the wedding, the groom takes center stage. He is adorned with a large decoration known
as Umbul-Umbul as he arrives. Then the mother of the bride will welcome him to her family by
putting a garland of flowers on him.
- The couple will then bend over forward and kiss their parent’s knees, which is custom called
sungkem. Sungkem is their way to ask for forgiveness, blessings and the promise to serve their
parents even after they are wedded.
- One wedding scenario takes place in front of a gargoyle water fountain. The water flowing
suggests the parent’s love for their children. Then a man and a woman sing kidung, a song on
behalf of their parents. It advises the new couple to live in harmony.
- Another scenario is that the groom and his bride will take their spots sitting side by side in front
of their future homes entrance under an umbrella. They will sit there with their heads covered by
a veil. The umbrella serves two purposes. One is for protection as it shields the couple from any
sun or rain. The other is symbolic for respect and esteem.
- After the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom are showered by dancers with flowers
insuring them a fragrant future.
- Rice that is thrown at the couple symbolizes prosperity, while the yellow represents everlasting
love.
- Representing a direction that the couple should take bringing them a happily married life, seven
candles are lit.
- In the southern region of Sudan live the Neur people. Their belief is that the marriage is not
complete until the wife has given birth to two children. In the event she only bears one, he can
seek divorce as well as the return of the cattle.
- In the event the husband dies, his family must present the widow with his brother as her
new husband. If they bear children together, the children will be considered as the deceased
husband’s kids.

Wedding Traditions of Africa’s Northeast Region
Wedding traditions in Africa bear some of the oldest rituals in the world; after all it is the oldestcontinent on the planet. Many of these traditions can be attributed to religion, culture or tribal. Inthe northeast region of Africa, you’ll find such countries as Chad, Egypt, Libya and Sudan, andwithin those countries you will find a spirit of their rituals.
Chad
There are different groups in the country of Chad; the two most known are the Arab Chad andthe Taubou or Daza Chad.
- The Arab Chad lives in a family that is closely knitted together.
- The primary social unit of the Arab Chad is known as Kashimbet.
- The Taubou Chad, are known for being nomadic.
- The wife is the decision maker in the family.
- The Taubou Chad believes in polygamy.
Egypt
- Often girls in Egypt marry at a young age.
- It is believed that the ring finger has the vein of love as it runs straight to the heart and that iswhy the ring goes on that finger.
- The groom’s family often proposes to the bride as many Egyptian weddings are still arraigned.After the agreement is made the Koran’s first chapter is read aloud.
- The Zaffa, which is an Egyptian wedding march, is played prior to the wedding vows. Itincludes music, drums, horns, belly dancers and flaming sword performers.
- An Egyptian wedding must include at least two Muslim witnesses.
Libya
- With Islam being the state religion of Libya, the wedding ceremony is usually Islamic and isquite often officiated by an imam.
- The marriage contract is signed in the bride’s home, but the festivities that follow usually takesplace on a different day.
- Wedding tradition of the past has a Libyan bride’s body completely covered with her faceveiled. However, the guidelines have changed some in recent years allowing a bride to wear awedding gown from the Western culture.
- An Islamic wedding generally has the new bride and groom eating their dinner secluded from
the wedding guests.
- On her way to her new home, often candy and rice are used to shower the bride as she walks.
Sudan
- Prior to the wedding, in exchange for the daughter’s hand in marriage, the groom’s family willgive the bride’s family sheep or cattle. This will help in replacing the labor lost by losing thedaughter’s help in the field. In some cases, it may cost the man as much as 40 cattle.
- For the wedding, the groom takes center stage. He is adorned with a large decoration knownas Umbul-Umbul as he arrives. Then the mother of the bride will welcome him to her family byputting a garland of flowers on him.
- The couple will then bend over forward and kiss their parent’s knees, which is custom calledsungkem. Sungkem is their way to ask for forgiveness, blessings and the promise to serve theirparents even after they are wedded.
- One wedding scenario takes place in front of a gargoyle water fountain. The water flowingsuggests the parent’s love for their children. Then a man and a woman sing kidung, a song onbehalf of their parents. It advises the new couple to live in harmony.
- Another scenario is that the groom and his bride will take their spots sitting side by side in frontof their future homes entrance under an umbrella. They will sit there with their heads covered bya veil. The umbrella serves two purposes. One is for protection as it shields the couple from anysun or rain. The other is symbolic for respect and esteem.
- After the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom are showered by dancers with flowersinsuring them a fragrant future.
- Rice that is thrown at the couple symbolizes prosperity, while the yellow represents everlastinglove.
- Representing a direction that the couple should take bringing them a happily married life, sevencandles are lit.
- In the southern region of Sudan live the Neur people. Their belief is that the marriage is notcomplete until the wife has given birth to two children. In the event she only bears one, he canseek divorce as well as the return of the cattle.
- In the event the husband dies, his family must present the widow with his brother as hernew husband. If they bear children together, the children will be considered as the deceasedhusband’s kids.

Wedding Traditions of Africa’s Northwest Region

Oct 22
2010
Wedding Traditions of Africa’s Northwest Region
Wedding traditions in Africa have some of the oldest customs in the world, as it is the oldest
continent on earth. Many of the traditions are of religious, cultural or tribal spirited. In the
northwest region of Africa, where you will find such countries as Algeria, Morocco, Niger and
Nigeria, you will see the true spirit of those customs in their ceremonies.
Algeria
- Since parents give the parental guidance, they must approve of the spouse before the couple
marries.
- Generally the male will express interest and love of a woman to his mother. She will then
verify suitability of the woman and her family with her own.
- Algerian weddings and receptions are filled with robust colors and with much emotion.
- After the engagement is announced, Shore begins. This the process of the family making
purchases of items such as: clothes, wool, gold and other household goods.
- The couple will then spend as much time together as possible to really get to know each other
and plan out what their roles will be before the wedding takes place.
- In Algeria, it is believed that the more money that is paid toward the wedding, the prouder they
are. In addition, the bigger the meal is at the reception, the more the generous.
- After the reception, the bride is taken to the groom’ s place wearing an elaborate wedding gown.
She is seated in a chair that has been decorated for her. She is all made up in jewelry, make-up
and with henna designs on her feet, as well as her hands. The guests will dance as they say good-
bye to her. When the couple leaves, they are now officially married.
M orocco
- The traditional wedding ceremony can last anywhere from four to seven days.
- A Moroccan wedding is usually done in three stages, the Hammam, the Henna and the
Ceremony.
- The brides’ jewelry must be made from gold. This includes her bracelets, rings, earrings and
necklaces.
- During a normal six months to two year engagement, the man will send his fiancé gifts.
- The Hammam is a pre-wedding ceremony where the brides’ friends and other women throw a
party and the bride is then bathed in a milk bath. This also includes black soap as to purify the
bride.
- The Henna is the painting of the brides’ hands and feet for the wedding. A specialist known as
the Nekkacha, paints her appendages in geometrical and floral designs. This is meant to scare off
any evil spirits.
- The Ceremony contains customary dress in which the couple is dressed by the Neggafates. This
is when the exchanging of the rings takes place.
- When the ceremony is done, guests partake in milk and dates. This symbols the sweetness and
fruitfulness that life has to offer. The couple is then carried across the room by young men on a
Amairya.
- A customary Moroccan wedding is generally impressive and very expensive.
Niger
- Often in Niger, the cousins will court each other for marriage.
- Male cousins often wear amulets that allegedly increase their attractiveness.
- In the event two male cousins have the same desires for the same female cousin, she will decide
as to which cousin she will marry.
- For the cousin she does not select, he would be welcomed to their home. If she consents, often
the bride may share her bed with both cousins.
Nigeria
- Nigeria respects their wedding traditions from the past, but has also incorporated more
contemporary rituals into their ceremonies.
- Engagement ceremonies take place in different parts of Nigeria. During this fun time, the
couple-to-be’ s family and friends enjoy nuts and colas, while the officiating elder drinks palm
wine; as does the couple.
- The officiating officer serves as the speaker for both families as they share messages between
each other.
- The family of the groom pays a price for the bride to her family. The price is generally made up
of shoes, clothing and jewelry.
- Often the family elders will assist in giving the bride a bath prior to her wedding day.
- For the ceremony, the bride often wears Indian fabrics that have been imported in. They may
include such items as: necklaces, ankle bracelets and decorative headpieces.
- Much like most weddings, a gala event follows the ceremony. Live bands playing all night long
with much singing and dancing is the norm at most Nigerian weddings.
- After the party, the groom, along with his family, will go to the bride’ s house to claim her from
her dad.

Wedding Traditions of Africa’s Northwest Region
Wedding traditions in Africa have some of the oldest customs in the world, as it is the oldestcontinent on earth. Many of the traditions are of religious, cultural or tribal spirited. In thenorthwest region of Africa, where you will find such countries as Algeria, Morocco, Niger andNigeria, you will see the true spirit of those customs in their ceremonies.
Algeria
- Since parents give the parental guidance, they must approve of the spouse before the couplemarries.
- Generally the male will express interest and love of a woman to his mother. She will thenverify suitability of the woman and her family with her own.
- Algerian weddings and receptions are filled with robust colors and with much emotion.
- After the engagement is announced, Shore begins. This the process of the family makingpurchases of items such as: clothes, wool, gold and other household goods.
- The couple will then spend as much time together as possible to really get to know each otherand plan out what their roles will be before the wedding takes place.
- In Algeria, it is believed that the more money that is paid toward the wedding, the prouder theyare. In addition, the bigger the meal is at the reception, the more the generous.
- After the reception, the bride is taken to the groom’ s place wearing an elaborate wedding gown.She is seated in a chair that has been decorated for her. She is all made up in jewelry, make-upand with henna designs on her feet, as well as her hands. The guests will dance as they say good-bye to her. When the couple leaves, they are now officially married.
M orocco
- The traditional wedding ceremony can last anywhere from four to seven days.
- A Moroccan wedding is usually done in three stages, the Hammam, the Henna and theCeremony.
- The brides’ jewelry must be made from gold. This includes her bracelets, rings, earrings andnecklaces.
- During a normal six months to two year engagement, the man will send his fiancé gifts.
- The Hammam is a pre-wedding ceremony where the brides’ friends and other women throw aparty and the bride is then bathed in a milk bath. This also includes black soap as to purify thebride.
- The Henna is the painting of the brides’ hands and feet for the wedding. A specialist known asthe Nekkacha, paints her appendages in geometrical and floral designs. This is meant to scare off
any evil spirits.
- The Ceremony contains customary dress in which the couple is dressed by the Neggafates. Thisis when the exchanging of the rings takes place.
- When the ceremony is done, guests partake in milk and dates. This symbols the sweetness andfruitfulness that life has to offer. The couple is then carried across the room by young men on aAmairya.
- A customary Moroccan wedding is generally impressive and very expensive.
Niger
- Often in Niger, the cousins will court each other for marriage.
- Male cousins often wear amulets that allegedly increase their attractiveness.
- In the event two male cousins have the same desires for the same female cousin, she will decideas to which cousin she will marry.
- For the cousin she does not select, he would be welcomed to their home. If she consents, oftenthe bride may share her bed with both cousins.
Nigeria
- Nigeria respects their wedding traditions from the past, but has also incorporated morecontemporary rituals into their ceremonies.
- Engagement ceremonies take place in different parts of Nigeria. During this fun time, thecouple-to-be’ s family and friends enjoy nuts and colas, while the officiating elder drinks palmwine; as does the couple.
- The officiating officer serves as the speaker for both families as they share messages betweeneach other.
- The family of the groom pays a price for the bride to her family. The price is generally made upof shoes, clothing and jewelry.
- Often the family elders will assist in giving the bride a bath prior to her wedding day.
- For the ceremony, the bride often wears Indian fabrics that have been imported in. They mayinclude such items as: necklaces, ankle bracelets and decorative headpieces.
- Much like most weddings, a gala event follows the ceremony. Live bands playing all night longwith much singing and dancing is the norm at most Nigerian weddings.
- After the party, the groom, along with his family, will go to the bride’ s house to claim her fromher dad.

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Sep 16
2010

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Wedding Traditions of Eastern Europe’s Central Region

Sep 14
2010
Wedding Traditions of Eastern Europe’s Central Region
Wedding traditions of Eastern Europe has grand traditions that have been part of the regions
many years. Although modern traditions have been incorporated, older traditions still remain.
For the countries of Bulgaria, Hungary and Romania, they are no exception.
Bulgaria
- In old Koprivshttiza, it was the mother who chose her son’s bride. The mother would see if the
woman would make a good wife if she was a good housewife that was hard working. The reason
for this is because often the son would be out of the village as much as four to five months out of
the year and did not have time to search for a bride.
- Often the groom’s parents and his friends will go to the home of the girl. They give her
parents reasons for why they are there as through various rituals. When the families agree on the
marriage, the young woman is then asked for her acceptance of the marriage, and more often
than not, she agrees.
- In the old days, a Bulgarian wedding may last up to three or four days, in which day has
something specific planned for it. Whether its food preparation or wreaths being made.
- Old Bulgarian wedding traditions are connected with the separation of the bride from her
family and friends as she joins her groom’s family. Often that leads to her calling her new in-
laws mother and father.
- Just prior to the wedding, a bride will toss a dish over her head. The dish is filled with coins,
wheat and raw eggs. In the event the dish breaks, that is a symbol for good luck.
- Future happiness is in order if the couple each steps into the church with their right foot.
Hungary
- Hungary is a multicultural country and often the weddings reflect that.
- The bride generally will wear an elaborate headdress which will include woven strands of
wheat. The wheat is a symbol of fertility.
- An egg is also presented to the new bride. She would then smash the egg thus bringing good
health to her future children.
- As a measure for the bride’s wish for a long and happy marriage, she will present a gift of
seven scarves to her new husband. Seven is considered a lucky number.
- The ceremony usually begins with the couple arriving by a horse drawn carriage.
- As a sign of their trust, the coupe will exchange moneybags and handkerchiefs.
- The money dance at the reception involves the bride placing her shoes in the middle of the
dance floor. Anyone wanting a dance with the new bride needs to place money into her shoes.
Romania
- A wedding ceremony is often known as a “show” with elaborate outfits. This is looked at as a
sign of prosperity and happiness to the new couple.
- Often in the Moldova part of Romania, a wedding celebration will last all night and into the
morning.
- A sign of respect to the parents is for the couple to bow to them, which is another way of
showing their gratitude for all that they have done as parents.
- At the end of the reception, a baby is held by the new bride as a symbol for her own home to be
full of children.
- In the Maramures part of Romania, a trust worthy friend of the groom will be sent to the
potential bride’s home to get permission of marriage. Quite often the answer is yes. At that point
the discussion turns to the woman’s dowry and the engagement date is set.
- Many traditions are followed to be exact with a Romanian wedding. Everything from the
clothing to the dressing of the table. Traditions play a very important part in wedding ceremonies
and their pre and post celebrations.
- On the evening before the wedding, many men and musicians will show up at the groom’s
house where they will perform the “Flag Dance.”
- Emotional moments are held for the relatives of the bride and groom as they ask their parents
for their forgiveness for all past mistakes.
- At the ceremony, both the bride and the groom will have their cheeks washed by the groom’s
mother. This is one form of acceptance of the new bride by her new mother-in-law.
- A Romanian wedding is so important, that many girls begin to plan as early as age six. They
will begin to fill their wedding trousseau by collecting treasures.

Wedding Traditions of Eastern Europe’s Central Region
Wedding traditions of Eastern Europe has grand traditions that have been part of the regionsmany years. Although modern traditions have been incorporated, older traditions still remain.For the countries of Bulgaria, Hungary and Romania, they are no exception.
Bulgaria
- In old Koprivshttiza, it was the mother who chose her son’s bride. The mother would see if thewoman would make a good wife if she was a good housewife that was hard working. The reasonfor this is because often the son would be out of the village as much as four to five months out ofthe year and did not have time to search for a bride.
- Often the groom’s parents and his friends will go to the home of the girl. They give herparents reasons for why they are there as through various rituals. When the families agree on themarriage, the young woman is then asked for her acceptance of the marriage, and more oftenthan not, she agrees.
- In the old days, a Bulgarian wedding may last up to three or four days, in which day hassomething specific planned for it. Whether its food preparation or wreaths being made.
- Old Bulgarian wedding traditions are connected with the separation of the bride from herfamily and friends as she joins her groom’s family. Often that leads to her calling her new in-laws mother and father.
- Just prior to the wedding, a bride will toss a dish over her head. The dish is filled with coins,wheat and raw eggs. In the event the dish breaks, that is a symbol for good luck.
- Future happiness is in order if the couple each steps into the church with their right foot.
Hungary
- Hungary is a multicultural country and often the weddings reflect that.
- The bride generally will wear an elaborate headdress which will include woven strands ofwheat. The wheat is a symbol of fertility.
- An egg is also presented to the new bride. She would then smash the egg thus bringing good
health to her future children.
- As a measure for the bride’s wish for a long and happy marriage, she will present a gift ofseven scarves to her new husband. Seven is considered a lucky number.
- The ceremony usually begins with the couple arriving by a horse drawn carriage.
- As a sign of their trust, the coupe will exchange moneybags and handkerchiefs.
- The money dance at the reception involves the bride placing her shoes in the middle of thedance floor. Anyone wanting a dance with the new bride needs to place money into her shoes.
Romania
- A wedding ceremony is often known as a “show” with elaborate outfits. This is looked at as asign of prosperity and happiness to the new couple.
- Often in the Moldova part of Romania, a wedding celebration will last all night and into themorning.
- A sign of respect to the parents is for the couple to bow to them, which is another way ofshowing their gratitude for all that they have done as parents.
- At the end of the reception, a baby is held by the new bride as a symbol for her own home to befull of children.
- In the Maramures part of Romania, a trust worthy friend of the groom will be sent to thepotential bride’s home to get permission of marriage. Quite often the answer is yes. At that pointthe discussion turns to the woman’s dowry and the engagement date is set.
- Many traditions are followed to be exact with a Romanian wedding. Everything from theclothing to the dressing of the table. Traditions play a very important part in wedding ceremoniesand their pre and post celebrations.
- On the evening before the wedding, many men and musicians will show up at the groom’shouse where they will perform the “Flag Dance.”
- Emotional moments are held for the relatives of the bride and groom as they ask their parentsfor their forgiveness for all past mistakes.
- At the ceremony, both the bride and the groom will have their cheeks washed by the groom’smother. This is one form of acceptance of the new bride by her new mother-in-law.
- A Romanian wedding is so important, that many girls begin to plan as early as age six. They
will begin to fill their wedding trousseau by collecting treasures.