Maui Wedding Planning Guide

Sep 23
2011

Maui Wedding Planning Guide

 

Congratulations, you just got engaged. Enjoy your moment because afterwards, until the day of your wedding, there are a lot of things that need to plan. You have dresses, guest lists, rings and much more, but what about the two main events? Your ceremony and reception.

 

Since there are many details, not to mention the services of outside vendors, you just want to be sure everything happens without a hitch. Besides, your guests will be witnessed to both, so you want to leave a favorable impression. They are not part of the behind the scenes items, so they only remember the main events.

 

Your Wedding Ceremony

 

Once you have set the date, you have to consider the following:

 

  • Type of Wedding. Will it be indoors, outdoors. Will you go formal, casual or themed? This decision will be what drives the rest of your planning for both the ceremony and the reception. Also, plan out three or four dates until you have your destinations decided on, in the event those places are already booked on your selected date.

 

  • Size of Wedding Party. Who will be responsible for what during both events?

 

  • Who is Performing the Service. Sometimes this can be tricky if you have different religions involved, so discuss it first. Also, if different religions are involved, you may consider both officiate.  In Maui, many of the officiants do more of a traditional Hawaiian themed ceremony.   This can be a wonderful treat for you and your guests as since your getting married on Maui, you might as well have some Hawaiian tradition.

 

Use of Vendors. In the event you are not using a wedding coordinator, you will have to select particular vendors that meet your wants and needs, as well as your budget. Don’t feel obligated to anyone and don’t settle on the first one. There may be more value for your money out there. When you find someone you like and get a good feeling from, ask for referrals for other vendors. A great resource is your Maui photographer or video person will have a list of people they work well with and will have the inside scoop.

 

  • Photographers. More than any other vendor you hire, the photographer is the one that should be of the utmost importance. After all, they are the ones that will be capturing your lifetime moments. Be sure to look at their portfolios, websites and spend time with them. Do they seem like someone that you can work WITH or against you? Do they seem like they care about you or your money? Be thorough and comfortable.

 

 

  • Videographers. Much like your photographer but not as distributable as photos. Much like the photographer, see plenty of their work and get a feel for their personality. Are they creative enough or can a tripod in the corner do as well.

 

  • Florists. The flower arrangements you decide on are the first things your guests will see as they arrive. So select flowers that are in bloom, that represent you and arrangements that will catch their attention. Be sure your florist can be at both locations early for set up. Again, you can ask any vendors for referrals.

 

 

  • Music. Selecting the proper mood music prior to the start of the ceremony sets the tone for the ceremony. Is it sleepy or too annoying? Is it music people will know or be offended? This also goes for the music that is played during the ceremony. Do you need an instrumentalist? A singer? Or just music on a cd?

 

Your Reception Ceremony

 

Much like the wedding itself, your reception will reflect you and how beautiful or memorable people will remember after they have left. Therefore, many of the above suggestions from the wedding ceremony also play out here.

 

  • A Themed Reception? Make this decision early as it will dictate how the location will be decorated or what music will be played, as well as the attire by your guests; such as a Hawaiian theme.

 

  • Your Vendors. The vendors used for your wedding should also be used for the reception. The only exceptions would be the music, the cake and the caterers.

 

  • Music. Will your music be provided by a live band, a DJ or prerecorded music? If you are going with a band or a DJ, get references. Were they boring during and in between songs, did they keep the party moving and fun, and do you feel comfortable with them. What kind of music do they have or play? Be thorough.

 

  • The Wedding Cake. Be sure they arrive early for placement and sample their cakes for taste. Also, see photographs of their work.

 

  • Your Caterers. Much like the wedding cake (and sometimes they can be the same person), look over their menus. Look at all the options and ask questions. Be sure they have food that vegetarians can also enjoy. Will it be served or buffet style? Be sure to give them a final count of guests as this will allow them to prepare plenty of food. In addition, discuss any seating arrangements with them ahead of time, so they know where the people of priority are sitting, such as parents of couple, etc.

 

So as you can see, details are everything. Just be sure once you have decided on your vendors to follow up with them a couple of times, including a week before just to touch base. Never feel obligated to hire a vendor, especially if you are not comfortable with them. This is your day, not theirs. Now go and have fun!

 

Weddings in Maui

Feb 06
2011

Weddings in Maui

Working as a Maui Wedding Photographer allows me to meet people who travel from all around the world. There’s nothing better than being able to meet so many people and see so much love. It doesn’t matter how young or old you are when you find it. I can tell you by being around so many people in “LOVE”  it’s truly amazing to see.

Wedding Traditions of the Middle East; Israel to Lebanon

Jan 22
2011

Wedding Traditions of the Middle East; Israel to Lebanon

Wedding traditions within the Middle East can vary just as much as their religions and other beliefs. Despite their differences, the one thing they all have in common is the love of their young and the celebrations of marriage. For the countries of Israel, Jordan, Kuwait and Lebanon, these joyous events are rich in tradition.

ISRAEL

Wedding traditions of Israel include:

- Usually starting around dawn, the groom and bride-to-be will fast and will continue to do so until the wedding ceremony concludes.

- To observe a biblical custom, at the beginning of the ceremony you may see the bride circling the groom seven times. The seven circles represent the searching for one another complete.

- Quite often, an Israeli wedding may take place under a wedding canopy known as a Huppah. The outside event is believed that the couple will be blessed with many children, just as many as the stars up in the heavens.

- As the ceremony is coming to an end, the groom will take the empty wine glass, wrap it up, and then stomp on it. This represents Israel’s Holy Temple and its destruction.

- At the very end of the ceremony, the guests will yell out “Mazel Tov!” or “Good Luck!” At which point the traditional dance to celebrate, the Hora, is performed.

JORDAN

Wedding traditions of Jordan include:

- Majority of the marriages are still arranged by the bride-to-be’s father.

- Quite often the marrying couples are cousins. In addition, the new couple may not know each other very well until after the engagement is announced.

- It is imperative that the brides-to-be are virgins upon their wedding night.

- After the marriage is complete, it is the husband that will dictate every aspect of his new bride’s life. That includes day-to-day life as well as any other travel. To travel, he must give written approval.

- Polygamy for the husband is legal and can have as many as four wives.

- In Jordan, divorce is legal. However in the event there are children, they will go into his custody. With this being the case, women in Jordan tend to stay in marriages, good or bad, instead of opting for divorce. Even if he weds others.

- Women that are divorced are seen as outcasts.

KUWAIT

Wedding traditions of Kuwait include:

- Staying within the Kuwait tradition, marriages are arranged and the family is responsible for finding the partner.

- Within the clans, intermarriage is common. However, it is not between the social classes.

- Women in Kuwait need the permission of their father to marry, despite their age.

- A man in Kuwait is allowed to marry a non-Muslim, but a woman can never marry a non-Muslim man.

- A man can marry up to four women, while a woman is only allowed to have one husband.

- Throughout the engagement period, the engaged woman is not allowed to meet anyone or even leave her house.

- On the night of the wedding ceremony, the groom, surrounded by his father, uncles, neighbors and other relatives, walk from his home to his bride’s, where they are received by the songstresses.

- After the ceremony, the new couple will spend the first week at her family’s home. When the week is over, they will then move on to his family’s home for much rejoicing and celebration. It is considered a bad omen if the bride’s mother joins them at the groom’s home.

LEBANON

Wedding traditions of Lebanon include:

- Usually a wedding engagement takes place in the home of the future bride, in which the groom will bring many presents.

- A wedding in Lebanon may take up to three days long.

- In the event a bride should step on the foot of a single girl, the single girl is brought good luck and will marry soon.

- After the wedding celebration is over, the bride’s family will be invited to a big feast by the groom’s family. This can be either lunch or dinner. Afterwards, the bride’s families will the return the favor to the groom’s side.

- Served at the reception will be the Ghoraibi. This is a white butter cookie that crumbles. The cookie is white which will represent the bride’s purity.

- Many of the old traditions in Lebanon still exist today, but you will see more and more of the modern day “western” style infused into the wedding and reception, especially in your larger cities such as Beirut.

A Maui Wedding

Jun 09
2010

I wanted to share this photo of a beautiful wedding cake from one of this weeks weddings. If your thinking of getting married and looking for tips on wedding cakes, ministers, photography and supplies, please give Nicole a call at:

808. 205-2366

Behind The Lens Maui

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